Wednesday, October 31, 2012
I should have seen this coming... he loves his princess dress, and he was a queen last year. But he's really started to developed those strong gender distinctions that all four year olds assert. For example, as a yoga instructor he has told me that girls are not allow to do the T-Rex move (thrusting out your claws and teeth) we should do the ultrasaurus move instead (stretching up really tall). However, he's still very much interested in being a fairy princess.
So I was left with a parenting quandary... I really believe in "Free to Be... You and Me", and Brad thought that his choice of costume was perfectly fine. However, trick or treating as a fairy princess is an entirely different thing from joining in the school parade as a fairy princess (Nikolai's preschool is linked to a grade school). Is it my job to protect him from the teasing of 6 year olds? What about his 4 year old classmates?
Nikolai does have a strong enough sense of self to be robust to such teasing... but I know that it would still hurt his feelings. What should I do?
With much guilt, I interfered with his personal freedom and declared that he would wear the cowboy outfit that Uncle Roger gave him to the school party, and wear the fairy princess outfit for trick or treating. He seems to have adopted the idea and shows a clear understanding of the need. When the woman at the grocery store checkout was taken aback by his costume plans, he added a modifier explaining that he would also be a cowboy. When the midwife responded positively to the fairy princess costume he was happy to leave it without such a qualifier.
Felt Trick or Treat Bags
1. The bags are 8" wide, 3.5" deep, and 10" tall. I cut the sides out of one long piece of orange felt (11" x 24"). I cut the base out a bit extra large to make it easy to fit (9"x 4.5"). Lastly I cut out two pieces for the handles (2" x 10").
2. The faces were cut out of black felt and were sewn on first (Nikolai requested a scary face).
3. The long piece of fabric was then sewn together, with all the sides of the bag emphasized by top-stitching.
4. The base was fit on, and sewn around on the outside. Since I don't need to worry about raveling with felt, decided to do an external seam to ensure a strong rectangular structure.
6. The top edge of the bag was folded to the inside, with the handles sewn in at that point.
Rolled Pumpkin Cookies
date sugar at our local health food shop.
Cream together 1/2 cup butter and 1 1/4 cups sugar. Add in 1 egg, 1 tsp vanilla and 1 cup pumpkin puree (I used a red kuri pumpkin because I wanted an intense orange colour). Then add in your dry ingredients: 2 1/2 cups flour, 1 tsp baking powder, 1 tsp baking soda, 2 tsp cinnamon, 1 tsp ginger.
Use as a drop cookie immediately, or refrigerate for 1 hour before rolling. Roll to 1/4" thick and cut out shapes. Bake at 350F (180 C) for 15-20 min. Push raisins in for faces before baking, or frost afterwards.